My Easy Love Spells

The eyes are the gateway to the soul.  So if you want to connect with another’s soul what more beautiful thing can you do than sit and gaze into each others eyes?

To make a soul connection, set up an area so that it will be comfortable for you and a partner (if you are on your own you can connect with yourself by using a mirror to gaze into your own soul).  Ideas for this space can be visions or chairs, an open fire, some incense and spiritual music.
Start with a caress, a hug or other gentle connection.  Look at the other person’s face and slowly take in every detail. Catch each others eyes but do not gaze immediately.  Play a game of glances until you naturally connect.  Once engaged, stay connected through a loving gaze, whilst letting go of your thoughts and keeping your mind clear.

You can either maintain this as long as is comfortable or keep breaking the gaze and re-engaging in a dance of your soul connection.

I hope you enjoy this game.

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One facet of the puzzle that is “Finding Love” is how attractive you are.

Being attractive is not easy to define, as you may have already gleaned from the quote Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how can you make yourself more attractive? This blog will give you three things to focus on. Your external appearance is the first aspect, your internal glow and your connection to the divine or universal energy.

While it is not always accurate to Judge a book by its cover you can tell the state of someone’s mind by the way they dress and how much care they take of their bodies and appearance. What can you do to create an attractive appearance?

• Make your clothes congruent with your personality, for instance find out what your natural colours are?
• If you wear make up, is it a mask or does it just enhance your looks? Whatever mask you may wear drop it, or them, as often as you can.
• And always be confident in everything you do, stand tall, use appropriate eye contact, project your voice.
• If you can stand naked in front of a mirror and look at yourself without being critical you are on your way to achieving this.

Your inner glow enhances your outward appearance. Your inner glow comes from your self-awareness and spirit.

• The more you are at peace with yourself the brighter your glow.
• The more you are grateful the more you will glow.
• The more you practice unconditional love, the brighter you glow.
• If people spontaneously come up to you and begin conversations and people you know share themselves and come to you for help then you are on your way to achieving this

To feed your inner glow you need to connect to the universal power that you believe in.

• Pray, meditate or cast spells regularly to connect with the Magick.
• See the Magick in everyday situations and look for the lesson in all situations.
• Join with others of a similar mind and share the Magick.
• If you do not need guided mediations, can connect with the divine when you choose and see the beauty and the lesson in every experience, you are on your way to achieving this.

The Inner Glow is what attracts people if you are hiding it through your appearance or fear of looking stupid then you will not come across to others as attractive. If you do not connect to the divine then you Glow will be dim not bright. If you don not love yourself then your glow will be dim and not bright.

Practice all three and you will attract bright souls into your life and your Magick will support you in all things.

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A great way to let go of the ties that you may still have after breaking up with someone is to meditate. I believe that meditation is just another way of connecting to the magick used in Love Spells. Meditations allow your to connect with the magick, heal yourself and connect with your heart and soul.

To perform the following guided meditation you need to either find a friend to read the following to you or you could record your voice and music to create your own meditation CD.

Prepare by finding yourself somewhere comfortable to sit. Set the atmosphere through music (if you haven’t already put some on your self-recorded CD), dimmed lighting and incense, such as Pine for strength and to cleanse away negative energy.
Begin to breathe slowly and focus on the breath in and the breath out. The words in the numbered list below should be said out loud by your friend or played as a recording.
1. Close your eyes and take three very deep, cleansing breaths. You are safe in the meditative state and can release yourself from it if a situation arises that would threaten your safety. Continue to focus on your breathing, each breath in, each breath out.
2. Visualise a emerald green light surrounding you and as you breathe see the healing light enter with each breath in. Imagine it filling your lungs, and seeping out into your torso, spreading over your body and then as it builds up focussing on your heart. Believe that the green light will remove any negativity that may have caused you to feel pain in your relationships with yourself and others and that the green light will cleanse your heart thoroughly.
3. Take another deep breath and on the outbreath allow the light to carry away any fears you may have about love. Be open to releasing the fear of feeling love. There is only your breath and the green light, feel each breath utilising the green light to release any fear of love and healing your heart.
4. Take another deep breath filling you with the green light, to release the fear of being loved, including the fear that if you are loved, you could be manipulated, tricked, used, abandoned, rejected, persecuted, or hurt.
5. With a third deep breath, accept that all of the fears from any lifetime are being lifted and carried away as you breath out, see them leave you on your outbreath and feel your heart expanding to its natural loving state.
6. Surface any feelings of unforgiveness you might have, for your parents, for your brothers or sisters, for friends past and friends present and anyone else who has passed through your life.
7. Now, with another deep breath, allow the green light to cleanse you completely. Release any unforgiveness you may hold toward yourself connected to love. Forgive yourself for betraying yourself, for ignoring your intuition, or for not looking out for your highest interests. Give yourself a hug, either in your mind or with your arms. Reassure your inner self that you will never again engage in self-betrayal.
8. Make a commitment to follow your intuition in love relationships, promise yourself you will never stay in any relationship that would hurt you physically or mentally. Fully release the unforgiveness for any mistakes that you think you may have made in any relationship, including your relationship with yourself. And with a final deep cleansing breath, feel yourself healed, whole, and ready to enjoy the love that is the truth about who you really are.
9. You are now ready to start to return to the physical world. Breathe slowly and gently as you become aware of your surroundings again, open your eyes when you are ready, stretch your body as you come back to help become aware of the physical world and note any changes in emotion and your body posture or movement that may result from the healing meditation.

Ensure you drink plenty of water in the next 24 hours as healing can result in the release of toxins. There is no limit to the number of times you could use this meditation, sometimes the layers of hurt with love need to be broken down a bit at a time or you may need to perform it regularly until your heart stays open to love.

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I was just thinking “Where was I when I found love?”. By that I don’t mean where geographically was I but “What was my outlook on life?” and “What were my desires?”

The answer to this lies in how I felt about myself and the emotions I attached to the quest for a soulmate and love.

I had reached a point in my life where I thought “OK I’m 30 and I haven’t met my soulmate. I also am a bit shy and so I’m probably not going to say much if I do! Which probably means I’ll just be getting along by myself.”. I doing so I let go of my attachment to love and the desperation that often goes with it. The other emotions which you may have hooked onto Love could be jealousy of other couples, unworthiness or fear of rejection.

What needs to happen for you to clear the space for Love is for you to let go of your attachment to love and any negative emotions you have related to love. Do this through meditation or visualisation of a pure form of love and any time the negative emotions surface, thank them for the learning they have given you in your life so far and tell them their service is no longer required. Perform the meditation once a day for at least 21 days and you will find love comes more easily and you are able to start loving in a pure way.

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Sometimes you just need a boost, it might be that you’re not feeling loved all the time. Well there’s a simple remedy to that, a love charged charm.
First off find something that represents Love to you, an archetypal Heart, a picture of someone that truly loves you or a place that fills you up with love whenever you are there, a love crystal like Rose quartz or anything else you love. The only other stipulation is that it will fit into your bag, pocket or wallet, or that you can wear it as jewellery. If you are not sure what to choose I suggest dowsing a couple of objects that you are attracted to and Making your selection that way (if you haven’t started dowsing then get going as soon as you can it’s an invaluable tool).
Your first mission is to cleanse the object of any negative energy. Do this by using smudge or incense (if your object is paper or flammable be responsible and hold the object away from the heat and within the smoke).
Once the object is clear, you can check this by dowsing, using a pendulum for this is easy and works well for me.
Now set yourself up with some love incense or essential oils burning, some music the evokes love for you and create an atmosphere where you feel love welling up through meditation or prayer. Do this while holding the object to your heart chakra.
Repeat this ceremony regularly to keep the object charged.
Carrying the object with you and looking at it and holding it will connect you to love each time with little effort, even if you are feeling down.

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To add power and focus to your Love Spells you may choose to utilize nature’s own crystals but which are the best crystals for casting Love Spells?

Crystals should be cleansed and charged before use. You can cleanse them simply by washing in salt water but to really cleanse them and start to energize them you should use blessed water and pure salt, such as Himalayan Salt. Run the salt water over the crystal and then if possible dry in the sun for extra power.
You should next charge your crystal through chanting or affirmations, while holding the crystal and channeling energies through to it. This will infuse the crystal with your energy and positive universal energy. Once you’ve done this make sure you are the only one who touches and uses those crystals or they may lose power and connection with you. And don’t forget to give them a recharge at least once a month.

You can do no better than Rose Quartz for Love Spell casting, it is even known by some as the love stone.
Rose quartz is related to the Heart chakra and to healing of that chakra and attraction of love. Use as part of casting love spells generally and attracting your soulmate. It can also be used to help clear past loves and blockages around love and the Heart chakra. If you are in an existing relationship it can promote trust, harmony and unconditional love.
Place your cleansed and charged Rose Quartz by your bed, in your relationship corner or by your Love Altar.
Wear a Rose Quartz pendant for healing and to open your heart to make you more receptive to love. It can also support you in loving yourself more and if you have lost a loved one it can help your grieving process.
And of course you can use it as part of all love spells, easy or complex.
Overall there is no better crystal for Love than Rose Quartz and it does not just help with romantic love it is supportive and healing in all areas of love. Get some now!!

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a Friday!

Fridays are associated with Venus the Roman goddess; Venus being the goddess of love, lust and beauty. Venus has various equivalents in mythology, such as Aphrodite from the Greek Pantheon, Shukra from the set of Indian gods and goddesses and Freyja from Norse mythology.

Looking at Friday as the day set aside for these deities and their common responsibilities for love, it can be taken as an indication that a Friday is a great day for casting a love spells or praying for your soulmate to come into your life.

You may also want to consider planetary movements when you planning the occasion to cast your love spell.  The moon can positively influence the success and power of your magick.  With the moon you have two choices in the cycle of the moon that can support your casting, either the New Moon or a Waxing Moon (where the moon is changing from a New Moon and increasing in fullness to create a Full Moon).

There are less opportunities to cast at a New Moon, especially if you want to coincide your casting with a New Moon on a Friday.  However, it is this combination which sets the foundation for your future love situation, so if you are starting out on your soulmate journey then this is the best time for you.  The New Moon supports magic spells related to cleansing and destruction.  Which means this time is great for clearing the baggage of past relationships and creating room for your soulmate or twinsoul.  If you choose this time to cast a love spell I suggest it is a spell that clears blockages, separates you from a previous love or opens your heart to start attracting more love into your life.

The other time to cast your love spell would be during a waxing moon on a Friday.  The waxing moon offers support to a spell caster who is looking to start something new, such as a new relationship or maybe to re-birth an existing relationship into something even more extraordinary.  So if you have already taken some steps on your soulmate journey then this is a good time for you to choose to cast you love magick.

Whatever your reason for casting a love spell then you want to put yourself in a position of connection and power to ensure the spell works it’s best magick for you. This means checking out the phase of the moon using a site such as calculatorcat.com’s Daily Moon Phases or StarDates’ Moon Calendar.

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Are you who you appear?  That might sound like a strange question but if you think about how you behave in different situation with different people you will find that you act differently each time.  You probably have a mask for work, one for home and one for when you are out with friends.

Is wearing masks a problem?  Not necessarily if you are aware of it. More importantly when you meet your special someone you are likely to be guarded at first and if you wish to connect with them fully you’ll need to be prepare to open up and reveal your authentic self.

One reason why partnerships fail is that one or both partners get used to hiding their feelings, either to avoid offending the other or to avoid pain themself.  A whole lot of trouble can come from trying to please people and very rarely does any real happiness come to you that way.  It may sound selfish but you must love yourself first and put yourself first or you will have nothing left to offer.

“If you spent your life concentrating on what everyone else thought of you, would you forget who you really were? What if the face you showed the world turned out to be a mask… with nothing beneath it?”

Jodi Picoult

Spending time with your special one and practising unconditional love will open your heart and allow you to experience a wonderful relationship.  It will seem scary at first but if in doing so you find that your partner hurts you then it’s time to rethink the relationship.  You may even find that you outgrow the person you are with or you drift apart through changing values and beliefs.  If that’s the case don’t hold on for the sake of holding on or you will find yourself developing a mask (or maybe even another mask).

Take a piece of paper and a pen.  Choose three relationships or scenarios and write down how you behave.  Review what you have written and recognise which parts of your behaviour are not the real you.  If you can see a pattern then give those behaviours a name.  Act out your mode and see how your body moves, how you breath and what you say.  Make a note of all these things and review them.

For example.  When I am interacting with Authority Figures I tend to go quieter, accept what they say without questioning and avoid confrontation.   I call this behaviour my Child Victim mask.   What I can now do is recognise each time I go into this mode, through language and body posture and change what either to help break that pattern and remove my mask.

Best wishes in revealing your authentic self and I’ll leave you with a quote.

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

James Arthur Baldwin

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A wonderful video from CharmingPixieFlora on YouTube.

I very much share her belief that you need to love yourself to be in the right place to attract your soulmate.

She gives you some strong affirmations and another thing which is a great ritual is to look yourself in the mirror and say “I love you”, make sure you look yourself in the eye!

Gratitude is another key element to attraction, I’ll cover this in a later blog along with journalling your gratitude.

CharmingPixieFlora also advocates being yourself, don’t be what you think someone else wants, be who you know you are at your core (again I’ll be blogging about this key element of attracting your soulmate).  they are all key foundations for ensuring that when you perform a love spell it really works.

And now for the video, enjoy

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