My Easy Love Spells

Do you just give, give, give, give? Is it draining? You bet it is!

It’s time to look at what you want to receive in a relationship. The following is a spell to attract more abundance into your life and more love.

The spells themes are:

• Color = Green
• Moon Phase = Waxing
• Magick Invocation = Visualisation, Emotion and Belief

So let’s get going

During the two weeks approaching a Full Moon preferably on a Sunday (The Sun is a symbol of great power and as you know the sun contributes to a great harvest). Take three green candles, a deep rich green that makes you think of lush plants that are flourishing. Place them in a triangle one close to you and two further away. Triangles are potent magical symbols that are sometimes forgotten but they represent some powerful trinities such as Mind/Body/Spirit and Crone/Mother/Maiden. By pointing the triangle towards you you are indicating that you wish to evoke Mother Earth and that you want to draw abundance towards you.

Use some incense such as Dragon’s blood to create a great atmosphere and put you in the mood for magic. Find some music that makes you feel abundance, there’s plenty out there, you could even get some subliminal music that promotes abundance or some chanting designed to help things flow to you.

Sit facing the candles, relax with three deep breaths, focus on the area in centre of the candles and start to imagine receiving money, love, or friendships or all of them, whatever you want to attract. Use your senses and imagination to ensure you feel the emotion of the abundance you seek. And when you are connected to that feeling start to bring a feeling of gratitude into you whole body and when you feel at a peak with that throw your arms in the air and shout “Thank You!”.

This way of building the magical energy and then throwing gratitude outwards can be incorporated with any God/Goddess you wish to invoke help from and can be repeated each month to keep the invocation alive. Repeating it will also mean that it gets more powerful each time.

If like me you are into White Magick then this is a great book to attract more abundance into your life.

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Feelings are very important in succeeding with Love Spells.  The way you feel when you cast a spell is what is amplified into the magickal energy and ultimately what you will receive more of.

It is therefore very important to put yourself in the mood. And if you are continually putting yourself in the mood for love then you will be in the perfect place for creating live spells.

There are various ways to get yourself into a loving space but it is easier if you combine several. Your emotions come from your reactions to external influences that are picked up by your senses. So, pictures will stimulate your visual sense, music or relaxing sounds (waves or singing bowls or similar) for your auditory sense, incense for your sense of smell, etc.

If you don’t know what your love stimulations are then think back to times when you have felt love or experiment with different sounds, smells, etc. looking out for what puts you in mind of love.

For me, I use images of loved ones, nature and lots of red, plus I burn rose incense and listen to flowing piano music. That and other sense tingling things puts me in the mood for love magick.

Create a regular ritual using all your sensory love tools and love in your life will multiply as you become tuned into your heart.

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Sometimes the love that is desired is the love of a good friend, someone who will listen to you without prejudice, laugh with you and support you through good times and bad. That someone may not be your intended partner but a best friend. If you don’t have such a person in your life then the following spell can help attract them.

What you’ll need:

• A yellow candle, an orange candle and a brown candle.
• A piece of paper.
• A pen.
• A lighter or matches.
• A fireproof container.
• Anything else you may need to create the right atmosphere.

Set yourself up where you won’t be disturbed. Put on some music that puts you in the mood for Magick. Place the candles on the surface you have chosen: brown on the left, orange in the middle and yellow on the right.

Place the paper, lighter, pen and fireproof container in front of you.

Step 1 Light the candles, first the brown, then orange then yellow.

Step 2 Write a description or list, on the piece of paper using the pen, of the sort of person you want to meet (avoid describing them physically as that reduces who the universe can send through, e.g. Don’t ask for a friend with brown hair but you could ask for someone who loves sport, if that’s something you want to share).

Step 3 Recite the spell below whilst lighting the paper, then drop the burning paper in the fireproof container and let it burn through.

Send me a friend, a friend for me.
Bring me the joy that I need.
By lighting this list.
I send out my request.
For a best friend that’s perfect for me.

And finally you can enhance this spell by burning incense with the description/list and by staying open to meeting this fabulous friend and going places that you want to go to with your friend and imagining what fun it’ll be when there’s the two of you there.

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Sometimes when you are seeking something, you find that you had it all the time and you were just unaware or had forgotten. That is often the way with love.
The other day I was driving over a narrow bridge with the other direction having right of way. I was about half way across when a car appeared and drove onto the bridge with the driver waving at me to go back. I went into anger, stalled car when reversing and swore even with my daughter in the car. This reaction is rare for me I usually take most things in my stride.
This anger carried on at home and I had to take some down time to try and shift my mood. It took a while but as soon as I asked the question “What is the lesson I am to learn?” The answer came back “Love”. It was then clear that all I needed to do was think about the other driver with love. I therefore loved his cheekiness, his confidence and his desire to impress his friends. I thought, with love, about how he could make a great leader given the love and support that a mentor could provide.
It was then that I realised that I could now think about the incident without anger, only with love.
Where in your life could you ask “What is the lesson I am to learn?”, you may find that “Love” is often the answer.

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One thing that can limit the success of your Love Spells is your Ego.
A person who has an over-inflated opinion of themself and what they “deserve” is a more common occurrence nowadays than it used to be. The feeling that you are owed something, especially love, creates a desperation inside that translates into whatever you do and is obvious to those around you. In terms of love this will be one of the things that is blocking you from finding your soul mate. You will be putting out a desperate call for a specific person or type of person and it will be what you want and not what you need to continue your soul journey.

The first step, to overcome this state, is to acknowledge it and let go of the desperation that you feel when you think about love. You must also ensure that you let go of your currently held belief regarding what you deserve. This can be done through direct observation of yourself and how you feel and think when you are contemplating who you want to meet and fall in love with. Each time you catch yourself thinking about love, in a way that is selfish or needy, catch yourself and let go of the feeling. Replace this with a thought of gratitude for the love that you have from yourself and from others.

Love is much easier where the ego is not involved or is not the primary driver of you desire. If you are struggling to release yourself from your ego I suggest you take a look at Sonia Choquette’s book Soul Lessons and Soul Purpose there are some wonderful but simple exercises that will connect you to the magick and align you with your Soul Purpose. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is living in line with their Soul Purpose

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A great way to let go of the ties that you may still have after breaking up with someone is to meditate. I believe that meditation is just another way of connecting to the magick used in Love Spells. Meditations allow your to connect with the magick, heal yourself and connect with your heart and soul.

To perform the following guided meditation you need to either find a friend to read the following to you or you could record your voice and music to create your own meditation CD.

Prepare by finding yourself somewhere comfortable to sit. Set the atmosphere through music (if you haven’t already put some on your self-recorded CD), dimmed lighting and incense, such as Pine for strength and to cleanse away negative energy.
Begin to breathe slowly and focus on the breath in and the breath out. The words in the numbered list below should be said out loud by your friend or played as a recording.
1. Close your eyes and take three very deep, cleansing breaths. You are safe in the meditative state and can release yourself from it if a situation arises that would threaten your safety. Continue to focus on your breathing, each breath in, each breath out.
2. Visualise a emerald green light surrounding you and as you breathe see the healing light enter with each breath in. Imagine it filling your lungs, and seeping out into your torso, spreading over your body and then as it builds up focussing on your heart. Believe that the green light will remove any negativity that may have caused you to feel pain in your relationships with yourself and others and that the green light will cleanse your heart thoroughly.
3. Take another deep breath and on the outbreath allow the light to carry away any fears you may have about love. Be open to releasing the fear of feeling love. There is only your breath and the green light, feel each breath utilising the green light to release any fear of love and healing your heart.
4. Take another deep breath filling you with the green light, to release the fear of being loved, including the fear that if you are loved, you could be manipulated, tricked, used, abandoned, rejected, persecuted, or hurt.
5. With a third deep breath, accept that all of the fears from any lifetime are being lifted and carried away as you breath out, see them leave you on your outbreath and feel your heart expanding to its natural loving state.
6. Surface any feelings of unforgiveness you might have, for your parents, for your brothers or sisters, for friends past and friends present and anyone else who has passed through your life.
7. Now, with another deep breath, allow the green light to cleanse you completely. Release any unforgiveness you may hold toward yourself connected to love. Forgive yourself for betraying yourself, for ignoring your intuition, or for not looking out for your highest interests. Give yourself a hug, either in your mind or with your arms. Reassure your inner self that you will never again engage in self-betrayal.
8. Make a commitment to follow your intuition in love relationships, promise yourself you will never stay in any relationship that would hurt you physically or mentally. Fully release the unforgiveness for any mistakes that you think you may have made in any relationship, including your relationship with yourself. And with a final deep cleansing breath, feel yourself healed, whole, and ready to enjoy the love that is the truth about who you really are.
9. You are now ready to start to return to the physical world. Breathe slowly and gently as you become aware of your surroundings again, open your eyes when you are ready, stretch your body as you come back to help become aware of the physical world and note any changes in emotion and your body posture or movement that may result from the healing meditation.

Ensure you drink plenty of water in the next 24 hours as healing can result in the release of toxins. There is no limit to the number of times you could use this meditation, sometimes the layers of hurt with love need to be broken down a bit at a time or you may need to perform it regularly until your heart stays open to love.

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A great way to keep focussed on Love and create a spirit of nurture is to grow plants and tend them as they grow.

Start by choosing a nice spot in your garden (if you don’t have a garden consider a pot you are happy to have indoors or a window box).

Once you know where your Love Garden will be think about the plants you want to grow. You may choose a plant such as a rose or some herbs (Basil is linked to love, as is lavender and red clover). Research which plants work for your chosen patch whether it is indoors, in a shady area or direct sunshine for instance. Picture how it will look after you have finished to inspire you.

Shape the area like a heart, initially by digging out that area and then when you have finished planting place stones or other markers round the edge to highlight the shape. For indoor plants or window boxes you may have to be a bit more creative in creating heart shapes or symbols for your garden

It is entirely up to you how big you make the heart, it may tell you something about yourself regarding the size you choose

Dig over the earth and ensure it is well turned over, it is best if you use your hands once the soil is loose and mix up the earth you have dug over with some fresh compost.

Make an appropriate size hole with your hands, if you can and then place a piece of rose quartz at the bottom, the rose quartz will amplify the love you put into your love garden. Water the hole and then place the plant gently into the hole and cover the roots with some of the mixed soil and compost. Push the earth down around the roots firmly but ensuring not to damage the plant and water again. Repeat this for all your chosen plants.

Water all the heart shaped area once finished (for a pot or window box you won’t need to water as much!). Create a border round it with decorative stones or something else. If you chose plants like roses then you could use chip bark to help keep weeds at bay but that is one of your primary tasks in keeping your heart garden beautiful and nurtured, keep it free of weeds.

Once you are finished meditate on your new garden and focus on love. Be sure to visit it every day, keep it watered, weeded and beautiful. As you do this you will find the peace and love in your heart grow as you tend to it’s needs, connect with nature and focus on love.

Now that is an easy love spell.

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Well for another year St Valentine’s Day is over. It’s a blessed relief for some and has, like many popular festivals and celebrations become overtly commercial. For Christmas, Easter and other festivals the meaning in getting lost in the frenzy for the latest presents and more sugar than a body should have to process in a lifetime let alone a couple of days.
That’s my little rant over, it is heartfelt though
Cupid is the Roman god representing love, desire and eroticism. He has been linked with St Valentine’s Day for many years. His alter-egos in other pantheons are Eros and Kamadeva, all are portrayed as young men with bow and arrows and all are associated with love and desire.
As with all love it is not something that is brought out once a year it is a way of life that can be lived every moment of every day. In that way Cupid, and his brothers, are there to support you in your Love Spells every day of the year.
Cupid, whilst being portrayed as mischievous, was also very much loyal in his love for Psyche. Despite their meeting coming from Cupid’s mother’s (Venus) jealousy of Psyche’s beauty he was affected by his own spell (scratched by his own arrow) and fell in love with her. There then followed a whole series of events and trials finally resulting in Psyche’s elevation to Goddess, due in part to her being affected by one of Cupid’s arrows. They both fought for their love, with Cupid defying his mother and Psyche her sisters, as well as undergoing a series of tests, and that is what shows me the power of love and the desire that soulmates have to attract each other and be together.
Think of the Love Spells you cast as Cupid’s arrows, you are performing his role in modern world, you are creating situations for love to blossom and for soulmates to meet and connect for life. How special is that?

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If you have split with someone and want to get back together, then you need to prepare and cast a Reconciliation Spell. The purpose of the Reconciliation Spell is to reconnect your soul energies, as the ties between them will have been damaged or severed by the actions of one or both of you.

As always with a situation where there has been conflict, consult an oracle (Tarot Cards, Rune Stones, etc.) to see whether it is favourable to get back together. You may choose to use a psychic or intuitive to work the divination as in this sort of situation you may well be best seeking an objective view as by the nature of your desire you have already decided the answer you want to hear.

If your choice is to continue with a reconciliation spell then you should contemplate the nature of the reconciliation. Begin by recalling as vividly as you can all the good times you had with the person, use a photo album if you have one to add a visual dimension and play some the songs that you shared with them. This brings your senses into play and will start to heal the bond between you. While doing this notice the feelings that are arising, if you start to feel any anger or blame, immediately stand up and say “Stop”. This will interrupt the negative thought and if you do it each time you with find that the anger or blame reduces each time.

Once you are feeling a strong love for your reconciliation target then take a white candle, a red candle and a pink candle and place them in a row either on a table or altar. If you have a picture of both of you happy together place that in front of the line of candles (or find individual pictures where you are both happy), place some rose quartz on the pictures and if you have some jasmine incense place that on the table too.

Put on a series of love songs or music that makes you feel love. Light the incense and then light the candles in turn and while lighting them recite the following:
“I see my love
I feel my love
Unconditionally I take you back
Unconditionally I come to you
The wounds are healed
The love returns
Back together to love, to hold, to heal each other.
I thank you.”

Pick up the rose quartz and the pictures, hold the quartz in your left hand and the pictures in your right and visualise energy building round your heart and then release it and see it envelop the pictures and the crystal. Sustain the energy as long as you can. Once you are finished blow the candles out in reverse order. Then give thanks to your deities or the universal energy. Congratulate yourself on a job well done and relax with a cup of rose petal tea.

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Think of your Magick as a muscle, the more you use use the better it gets, the stronger the energy gets that you generate to build your dreams into your reality. Spells may work the first time but quite often they don’t and so you need to keep trying different combinations of ingredients, words or elements. The most successful people have “failed” many times before achieving greatness. So if you are new to casting spells do not lose heart, keep going and keep up the good work.

The best way to keep track of what you are doing and the results you are getting is to write all your spells in a journal, those that you find work for you can be transferred into a grimoire or book of shadows. There are many things to record to ensure you can look back, assess the results of your spells and, as a result, be clear about what has and hasn’t worked for you. I recommend you record:

• where you cast the spell
• what emotions you were feeling before,during and after the spell casting
• the symbols and ingredients you used
• the phase of the moon (and other relevant planets, if you have knowledge in that arena)
• what you say and what your thoughts are (also any sounds, images, smells that come to you while you are casting)

Armed with all this information, plus any feedback or events that you associate with the success or failure of the spell, you will grow in Magickal stature if you practice regularly and stay connected with your source of Magick.

This goes even more so for love spells as if you not only practice spell casting and connection to your source of Magick BUT also practice unconditional love you will attract more love into you life at the same time.

“Love, and more love becomes available; use more and you have more. This is the law of life. You can eat the cake and have it also. Compassion, love, activity, whatsoever the dimension, the same rule applies. Whatsoever you want more of, do the same. If you want to become an infinite source of love, then go on sharing love as much as you can. Don’t be a miser; only misers lose energy. And we are all misers, that’s why we always feel dissipated.” Osho

Blessed Be

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