Feeling the Love
Feelings are very important in succeeding with Love Spells. The way you feel when you cast a spell is what is amplified into the magickal energy and ultimately what you will receive more of.
It is therefore very important to put yourself in the mood. And if you are continually putting yourself in the mood for love then you will be in the perfect place for creating live spells.
There are various ways to get yourself into a loving space but it is easier if you combine several. Your emotions come from your reactions to external influences that are picked up by your senses. So, pictures will stimulate your visual sense, music or relaxing sounds (waves or singing bowls or similar) for your auditory sense, incense for your sense of smell, etc.
If you don’t know what your love stimulations are then think back to times when you have felt love or experiment with different sounds, smells, etc. looking out for what puts you in mind of love.
For me, I use images of loved ones, nature and lots of red, plus I burn rose incense and listen to flowing piano music. That and other sense tingling things puts me in the mood for love magick.
Create a regular ritual using all your sensory love tools and love in your life will multiply as you become tuned into your heart.
The Ethics of Love Spells
This blog entry is to let you know where I stand on the ethics of casting Love Spells. Is it right to make someone love you? Can you make someone love you? Should you cast a spell on a person already in a relationship?
My stance on this is very much a “No” to all of those questions. Why?
My beliefs in the way which magick and the universal energy generally is that it isn’t you or me that knows what we need best it is the universe or your God/Goddess. For any spell if you get too specific it is going to be harder for the universe to comply with your request, it won’t necessarily be impossible but it will take a long time, and if it is not in your destiny or it would interfere with greater things for your request to happen then you will never see it happen.
However, you want that person don’t you? That specific person that you want may have other ideas and I believe if you go forward with your love spell specifically directed at them then you will probably spend the rest of your time together casting more spells to keep patching things up and keeping them bound to you. Could you let them go? The well-known quote “If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don’t, they never were.” applies here. Cast a Love Spell that gives the universe choice, one that asks that you meet your soulmate and they are drawn to you.
Divination can be used here too. Whatever your chosen method (e.g. runes, tarot cards, kinesiology) consult your oracle and ask if the person you have in mind is your soulmate. Be prepared for “No” as well as a “Yes”, this is where you get to practice detachment from the outcome and trust that you are provided with what you need and not necessarily what you want (although it’s always a bonus when wants and needs coincide
).
If you are lucky enough to get a “Yes” then you could visualise that your life with that person as part of your daily routine but I would still be wary of including them in your actual spell casting, after all they are already your soulmate and it is now up to you to connect with them and help them realise you should be together.
Your other consideration here should be around what messages you are putting out into the universe and how they will be reflected back to you as they inevitably are. Are you likely to be creating good Karma or bad Karma by casting your spell, What is your intention? If you are trying to get someone already involved with another to love you, what sort of Karma is that likely to create? I think your heading for torrid times if you choose that path.
If you have a feeling of you must be with a particular person at all costs you must consider whether there is desperation in your intention to be with them. The best way to uncover this is to speak with people who can give you an unbiased opinion, use divination and take some time out from the thought that you must be with them for a period of time. Each time the thought comes up say to it you’ll deal with it next week do that until it becomes calmer and then meditate on who your soulmate is.
This blog has been brought to you by my own opinion! I’m sure you have yours and I’d love to hear it.

