My Easy Love Spells

The eyes are the gateway to the soul.  So if you want to connect with another’s soul what more beautiful thing can you do than sit and gaze into each others eyes?

To make a soul connection, set up an area so that it will be comfortable for you and a partner (if you are on your own you can connect with yourself by using a mirror to gaze into your own soul).  Ideas for this space can be visions or chairs, an open fire, some incense and spiritual music.
Start with a caress, a hug or other gentle connection.  Look at the other person’s face and slowly take in every detail. Catch each others eyes but do not gaze immediately.  Play a game of glances until you naturally connect.  Once engaged, stay connected through a loving gaze, whilst letting go of your thoughts and keeping your mind clear.

You can either maintain this as long as is comfortable or keep breaking the gaze and re-engaging in a dance of your soul connection.

I hope you enjoy this game.

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One facet of the puzzle that is “Finding Love” is how attractive you are.

Being attractive is not easy to define, as you may have already gleaned from the quote Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how can you make yourself more attractive? This blog will give you three things to focus on. Your external appearance is the first aspect, your internal glow and your connection to the divine or universal energy.

While it is not always accurate to Judge a book by its cover you can tell the state of someone’s mind by the way they dress and how much care they take of their bodies and appearance. What can you do to create an attractive appearance?

• Make your clothes congruent with your personality, for instance find out what your natural colours are?
• If you wear make up, is it a mask or does it just enhance your looks? Whatever mask you may wear drop it, or them, as often as you can.
• And always be confident in everything you do, stand tall, use appropriate eye contact, project your voice.
• If you can stand naked in front of a mirror and look at yourself without being critical you are on your way to achieving this.

Your inner glow enhances your outward appearance. Your inner glow comes from your self-awareness and spirit.

• The more you are at peace with yourself the brighter your glow.
• The more you are grateful the more you will glow.
• The more you practice unconditional love, the brighter you glow.
• If people spontaneously come up to you and begin conversations and people you know share themselves and come to you for help then you are on your way to achieving this

To feed your inner glow you need to connect to the universal power that you believe in.

• Pray, meditate or cast spells regularly to connect with the Magick.
• See the Magick in everyday situations and look for the lesson in all situations.
• Join with others of a similar mind and share the Magick.
• If you do not need guided mediations, can connect with the divine when you choose and see the beauty and the lesson in every experience, you are on your way to achieving this.

The Inner Glow is what attracts people if you are hiding it through your appearance or fear of looking stupid then you will not come across to others as attractive. If you do not connect to the divine then you Glow will be dim not bright. If you don not love yourself then your glow will be dim and not bright.

Practice all three and you will attract bright souls into your life and your Magick will support you in all things.

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Do you just give, give, give, give? Is it draining? You bet it is!

It’s time to look at what you want to receive in a relationship. The following is a spell to attract more abundance into your life and more love.

The spells themes are:

• Color = Green
• Moon Phase = Waxing
• Magick Invocation = Visualisation, Emotion and Belief

So let’s get going

During the two weeks approaching a Full Moon preferably on a Sunday (The Sun is a symbol of great power and as you know the sun contributes to a great harvest). Take three green candles, a deep rich green that makes you think of lush plants that are flourishing. Place them in a triangle one close to you and two further away. Triangles are potent magical symbols that are sometimes forgotten but they represent some powerful trinities such as Mind/Body/Spirit and Crone/Mother/Maiden. By pointing the triangle towards you you are indicating that you wish to evoke Mother Earth and that you want to draw abundance towards you.

Use some incense such as Dragon’s blood to create a great atmosphere and put you in the mood for magic. Find some music that makes you feel abundance, there’s plenty out there, you could even get some subliminal music that promotes abundance or some chanting designed to help things flow to you.

Sit facing the candles, relax with three deep breaths, focus on the area in centre of the candles and start to imagine receiving money, love, or friendships or all of them, whatever you want to attract. Use your senses and imagination to ensure you feel the emotion of the abundance you seek. And when you are connected to that feeling start to bring a feeling of gratitude into you whole body and when you feel at a peak with that throw your arms in the air and shout “Thank You!”.

This way of building the magical energy and then throwing gratitude outwards can be incorporated with any God/Goddess you wish to invoke help from and can be repeated each month to keep the invocation alive. Repeating it will also mean that it gets more powerful each time.

If like me you are into White Magick then this is a great book to attract more abundance into your life.

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Feelings are very important in succeeding with Love Spells.  The way you feel when you cast a spell is what is amplified into the magickal energy and ultimately what you will receive more of.

It is therefore very important to put yourself in the mood. And if you are continually putting yourself in the mood for love then you will be in the perfect place for creating live spells.

There are various ways to get yourself into a loving space but it is easier if you combine several. Your emotions come from your reactions to external influences that are picked up by your senses. So, pictures will stimulate your visual sense, music or relaxing sounds (waves or singing bowls or similar) for your auditory sense, incense for your sense of smell, etc.

If you don’t know what your love stimulations are then think back to times when you have felt love or experiment with different sounds, smells, etc. looking out for what puts you in mind of love.

For me, I use images of loved ones, nature and lots of red, plus I burn rose incense and listen to flowing piano music. That and other sense tingling things puts me in the mood for love magick.

Create a regular ritual using all your sensory love tools and love in your life will multiply as you become tuned into your heart.

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Sometimes the love that is desired is the love of a good friend, someone who will listen to you without prejudice, laugh with you and support you through good times and bad. That someone may not be your intended partner but a best friend. If you don’t have such a person in your life then the following spell can help attract them.

What you’ll need:

• A yellow candle, an orange candle and a brown candle.
• A piece of paper.
• A pen.
• A lighter or matches.
• A fireproof container.
• Anything else you may need to create the right atmosphere.

Set yourself up where you won’t be disturbed. Put on some music that puts you in the mood for Magick. Place the candles on the surface you have chosen: brown on the left, orange in the middle and yellow on the right.

Place the paper, lighter, pen and fireproof container in front of you.

Step 1 Light the candles, first the brown, then orange then yellow.

Step 2 Write a description or list, on the piece of paper using the pen, of the sort of person you want to meet (avoid describing them physically as that reduces who the universe can send through, e.g. Don’t ask for a friend with brown hair but you could ask for someone who loves sport, if that’s something you want to share).

Step 3 Recite the spell below whilst lighting the paper, then drop the burning paper in the fireproof container and let it burn through.

Send me a friend, a friend for me.
Bring me the joy that I need.
By lighting this list.
I send out my request.
For a best friend that’s perfect for me.

And finally you can enhance this spell by burning incense with the description/list and by staying open to meeting this fabulous friend and going places that you want to go to with your friend and imagining what fun it’ll be when there’s the two of you there.

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If you think that love is fine on its own then think again. Love needs to be fueled and a great fuel is creativity. Think about a couple you know who are not that happy together any more, or are less happy than they were. How much creativity is there in those relationships?

At first the creativity is easy. You have just met and you are discovering each other and the things that make you both tick. You want to please the other person so you come up with ideas all the time. Flowers, chocolates, trips to somewhere special, their favorite film on a special edition DVD . . . but as you become more familiar and know that you will stay together the creative love tends to peter out, the creativity reduces.

To bring magick back into a relationship takes creativity and love. you must rediscover what your partner loves (other than you!), do they have any interests that you have forgotten about? Could you whisk them away to a place that is magick for you both? Somewhere that holds wonderful memories. This in itself is magick, doing something selflessly for love and love along. Do not have any preconceived ideas of how this will work out, trust the universe to deliver on your honest and open intention to generate love.

And remember love is not just a one off it is for life. Even if you cannot afford to do a grand gesture like take your loved one away, think of all the wonderful things you can do . . . Magic Moments. Imagine how they will feel, if while they are out, you do the chore they hate the most, with no thought of what you might get in return. Imagine the love you can generate by offering a selfless massage with no thought but love and service.

Do listen to your heart, stay still and tune in, ideas will come, don’t dismiss them but think how you can make them happen. Do listen to your partner what do they love, what do they dream of? Do everything without thought of reward, only to generate love creatively.

Namaste

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A great way to let go of the ties that you may still have after breaking up with someone is to meditate. I believe that meditation is just another way of connecting to the magick used in Love Spells. Meditations allow your to connect with the magick, heal yourself and connect with your heart and soul.

To perform the following guided meditation you need to either find a friend to read the following to you or you could record your voice and music to create your own meditation CD.

Prepare by finding yourself somewhere comfortable to sit. Set the atmosphere through music (if you haven’t already put some on your self-recorded CD), dimmed lighting and incense, such as Pine for strength and to cleanse away negative energy.
Begin to breathe slowly and focus on the breath in and the breath out. The words in the numbered list below should be said out loud by your friend or played as a recording.
1. Close your eyes and take three very deep, cleansing breaths. You are safe in the meditative state and can release yourself from it if a situation arises that would threaten your safety. Continue to focus on your breathing, each breath in, each breath out.
2. Visualise a emerald green light surrounding you and as you breathe see the healing light enter with each breath in. Imagine it filling your lungs, and seeping out into your torso, spreading over your body and then as it builds up focussing on your heart. Believe that the green light will remove any negativity that may have caused you to feel pain in your relationships with yourself and others and that the green light will cleanse your heart thoroughly.
3. Take another deep breath and on the outbreath allow the light to carry away any fears you may have about love. Be open to releasing the fear of feeling love. There is only your breath and the green light, feel each breath utilising the green light to release any fear of love and healing your heart.
4. Take another deep breath filling you with the green light, to release the fear of being loved, including the fear that if you are loved, you could be manipulated, tricked, used, abandoned, rejected, persecuted, or hurt.
5. With a third deep breath, accept that all of the fears from any lifetime are being lifted and carried away as you breath out, see them leave you on your outbreath and feel your heart expanding to its natural loving state.
6. Surface any feelings of unforgiveness you might have, for your parents, for your brothers or sisters, for friends past and friends present and anyone else who has passed through your life.
7. Now, with another deep breath, allow the green light to cleanse you completely. Release any unforgiveness you may hold toward yourself connected to love. Forgive yourself for betraying yourself, for ignoring your intuition, or for not looking out for your highest interests. Give yourself a hug, either in your mind or with your arms. Reassure your inner self that you will never again engage in self-betrayal.
8. Make a commitment to follow your intuition in love relationships, promise yourself you will never stay in any relationship that would hurt you physically or mentally. Fully release the unforgiveness for any mistakes that you think you may have made in any relationship, including your relationship with yourself. And with a final deep cleansing breath, feel yourself healed, whole, and ready to enjoy the love that is the truth about who you really are.
9. You are now ready to start to return to the physical world. Breathe slowly and gently as you become aware of your surroundings again, open your eyes when you are ready, stretch your body as you come back to help become aware of the physical world and note any changes in emotion and your body posture or movement that may result from the healing meditation.

Ensure you drink plenty of water in the next 24 hours as healing can result in the release of toxins. There is no limit to the number of times you could use this meditation, sometimes the layers of hurt with love need to be broken down a bit at a time or you may need to perform it regularly until your heart stays open to love.

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A great way to keep focussed on Love and create a spirit of nurture is to grow plants and tend them as they grow.

Start by choosing a nice spot in your garden (if you don’t have a garden consider a pot you are happy to have indoors or a window box).

Once you know where your Love Garden will be think about the plants you want to grow. You may choose a plant such as a rose or some herbs (Basil is linked to love, as is lavender and red clover). Research which plants work for your chosen patch whether it is indoors, in a shady area or direct sunshine for instance. Picture how it will look after you have finished to inspire you.

Shape the area like a heart, initially by digging out that area and then when you have finished planting place stones or other markers round the edge to highlight the shape. For indoor plants or window boxes you may have to be a bit more creative in creating heart shapes or symbols for your garden

It is entirely up to you how big you make the heart, it may tell you something about yourself regarding the size you choose

Dig over the earth and ensure it is well turned over, it is best if you use your hands once the soil is loose and mix up the earth you have dug over with some fresh compost.

Make an appropriate size hole with your hands, if you can and then place a piece of rose quartz at the bottom, the rose quartz will amplify the love you put into your love garden. Water the hole and then place the plant gently into the hole and cover the roots with some of the mixed soil and compost. Push the earth down around the roots firmly but ensuring not to damage the plant and water again. Repeat this for all your chosen plants.

Water all the heart shaped area once finished (for a pot or window box you won’t need to water as much!). Create a border round it with decorative stones or something else. If you chose plants like roses then you could use chip bark to help keep weeds at bay but that is one of your primary tasks in keeping your heart garden beautiful and nurtured, keep it free of weeds.

Once you are finished meditate on your new garden and focus on love. Be sure to visit it every day, keep it watered, weeded and beautiful. As you do this you will find the peace and love in your heart grow as you tend to it’s needs, connect with nature and focus on love.

Now that is an easy love spell.

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I was just thinking “Where was I when I found love?”. By that I don’t mean where geographically was I but “What was my outlook on life?” and “What were my desires?”

The answer to this lies in how I felt about myself and the emotions I attached to the quest for a soulmate and love.

I had reached a point in my life where I thought “OK I’m 30 and I haven’t met my soulmate. I also am a bit shy and so I’m probably not going to say much if I do! Which probably means I’ll just be getting along by myself.”. I doing so I let go of my attachment to love and the desperation that often goes with it. The other emotions which you may have hooked onto Love could be jealousy of other couples, unworthiness or fear of rejection.

What needs to happen for you to clear the space for Love is for you to let go of your attachment to love and any negative emotions you have related to love. Do this through meditation or visualisation of a pure form of love and any time the negative emotions surface, thank them for the learning they have given you in your life so far and tell them their service is no longer required. Perform the meditation once a day for at least 21 days and you will find love comes more easily and you are able to start loving in a pure way.

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the earthquake and it’s aftermath is a horrible thing that has happened in Japan and my heart goes out to those who are there, those who know someone that is and those who have lost loved ones.

I have said before that practising love is the easiest love spell you can cast and now is the time to practice distance love and distance healing. Love and healing energy are connected and if you know how to send distance healing you can use the same approach for sending love too.

For those of you who don’t then please just follow the steps below.

• Set up an altar that represents love to you.
• Add something that is symbolic of Japan for you (this may be some pictures from a magazine or the national flag).
• Light either a candle the color of each of the chakra’s or a single turquoise candle to help focus the healing power.
• Settle yourself as if getting ready to meditate.
• Take 5 long breaths: each one in through the nose and out through the mouth; focus on each breathe as you life force.
• Start to see a brilliant white light coming down into you; this is the divine energy.
• Next see a golden light coming up into you from the earth; this is the earth goddess energy.
• See the two lights play with each other without combining.
• Then direct the lights through your heart chakra to the person or place you are wanting to heal.
• It will emerge as a turquoise light; see that going to and healing that person or place.
• After some time it will become clear that it is time to close the healing session; the light will fade or you may start to feel tired.
• Close the energy conduit that you opened through your heart chakra and see that the white and gold energy stop flowing into you.
• Give thanks for the healing power that you channelled to the divine and the earth.
• You’re all done. Thank you for supporting the Japanese recovery efforts.

The more you focus on love and practise it the more love you will have in your life.

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