My Easy Love Spells

Sometimes you feel that love has defeated you or love has cheated you. That will remain true until you allow yourself to move on.

To enable yourself to move on you must focus on three things.
Forgiveness, Gratitude and New Love.

Forgiveness: After a love has failed your only way to begin your journey to new love is to practice forgiveness. Firstly you must forgive the person or people who you believe have wronged you. Then you must look to yourself, what did you do that you are blaming yourself for? Are you accusing yourself of making stupid decisions or cowardice? Any situation that comes up in your mind regularly which causes you mental pain or anguish is an experience you need to apply forgiveness to. Forgive yourself for these things and ready yourself for the next stage.

Gratitude: Once you have forgiven yourself and others you will then be in a place where you can practice gratitude. It is your duty to look at the areas where you forgave and see what lessons you have learned. You can then be look to what you are grateful for in that situation. For example, if you were dominated by a previous partner you may choose to apply gratitude to the situation for learning how to recognise a dominating person and thus being able to avoid a similar situation. It is important to understand that forgiveness and gratitude never condone another’s actions.

Once you have applied forgiveness and gratitude you are ready to move on.

New Love: You can now focus on finding new love. Create rituals that mean you look for new love every day, make an alter, perform love spells and visualise meeting your love. Doing all these things and focussing on performing loving actions in every aspect of you life will create the space of new love to come into you life and nurture you.

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A great way to let go of the ties that you may still have after breaking up with someone is to meditate. I believe that meditation is just another way of connecting to the magick used in Love Spells. Meditations allow your to connect with the magick, heal yourself and connect with your heart and soul.

To perform the following guided meditation you need to either find a friend to read the following to you or you could record your voice and music to create your own meditation CD.

Prepare by finding yourself somewhere comfortable to sit. Set the atmosphere through music (if you haven’t already put some on your self-recorded CD), dimmed lighting and incense, such as Pine for strength and to cleanse away negative energy.
Begin to breathe slowly and focus on the breath in and the breath out. The words in the numbered list below should be said out loud by your friend or played as a recording.
1. Close your eyes and take three very deep, cleansing breaths. You are safe in the meditative state and can release yourself from it if a situation arises that would threaten your safety. Continue to focus on your breathing, each breath in, each breath out.
2. Visualise a emerald green light surrounding you and as you breathe see the healing light enter with each breath in. Imagine it filling your lungs, and seeping out into your torso, spreading over your body and then as it builds up focussing on your heart. Believe that the green light will remove any negativity that may have caused you to feel pain in your relationships with yourself and others and that the green light will cleanse your heart thoroughly.
3. Take another deep breath and on the outbreath allow the light to carry away any fears you may have about love. Be open to releasing the fear of feeling love. There is only your breath and the green light, feel each breath utilising the green light to release any fear of love and healing your heart.
4. Take another deep breath filling you with the green light, to release the fear of being loved, including the fear that if you are loved, you could be manipulated, tricked, used, abandoned, rejected, persecuted, or hurt.
5. With a third deep breath, accept that all of the fears from any lifetime are being lifted and carried away as you breath out, see them leave you on your outbreath and feel your heart expanding to its natural loving state.
6. Surface any feelings of unforgiveness you might have, for your parents, for your brothers or sisters, for friends past and friends present and anyone else who has passed through your life.
7. Now, with another deep breath, allow the green light to cleanse you completely. Release any unforgiveness you may hold toward yourself connected to love. Forgive yourself for betraying yourself, for ignoring your intuition, or for not looking out for your highest interests. Give yourself a hug, either in your mind or with your arms. Reassure your inner self that you will never again engage in self-betrayal.
8. Make a commitment to follow your intuition in love relationships, promise yourself you will never stay in any relationship that would hurt you physically or mentally. Fully release the unforgiveness for any mistakes that you think you may have made in any relationship, including your relationship with yourself. And with a final deep cleansing breath, feel yourself healed, whole, and ready to enjoy the love that is the truth about who you really are.
9. You are now ready to start to return to the physical world. Breathe slowly and gently as you become aware of your surroundings again, open your eyes when you are ready, stretch your body as you come back to help become aware of the physical world and note any changes in emotion and your body posture or movement that may result from the healing meditation.

Ensure you drink plenty of water in the next 24 hours as healing can result in the release of toxins. There is no limit to the number of times you could use this meditation, sometimes the layers of hurt with love need to be broken down a bit at a time or you may need to perform it regularly until your heart stays open to love.

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If you have split with someone and want to get back together, then you need to prepare and cast a Reconciliation Spell. The purpose of the Reconciliation Spell is to reconnect your soul energies, as the ties between them will have been damaged or severed by the actions of one or both of you.

As always with a situation where there has been conflict, consult an oracle (Tarot Cards, Rune Stones, etc.) to see whether it is favourable to get back together. You may choose to use a psychic or intuitive to work the divination as in this sort of situation you may well be best seeking an objective view as by the nature of your desire you have already decided the answer you want to hear.

If your choice is to continue with a reconciliation spell then you should contemplate the nature of the reconciliation. Begin by recalling as vividly as you can all the good times you had with the person, use a photo album if you have one to add a visual dimension and play some the songs that you shared with them. This brings your senses into play and will start to heal the bond between you. While doing this notice the feelings that are arising, if you start to feel any anger or blame, immediately stand up and say “Stop”. This will interrupt the negative thought and if you do it each time you with find that the anger or blame reduces each time.

Once you are feeling a strong love for your reconciliation target then take a white candle, a red candle and a pink candle and place them in a row either on a table or altar. If you have a picture of both of you happy together place that in front of the line of candles (or find individual pictures where you are both happy), place some rose quartz on the pictures and if you have some jasmine incense place that on the table too.

Put on a series of love songs or music that makes you feel love. Light the incense and then light the candles in turn and while lighting them recite the following:
“I see my love
I feel my love
Unconditionally I take you back
Unconditionally I come to you
The wounds are healed
The love returns
Back together to love, to hold, to heal each other.
I thank you.”

Pick up the rose quartz and the pictures, hold the quartz in your left hand and the pictures in your right and visualise energy building round your heart and then release it and see it envelop the pictures and the crystal. Sustain the energy as long as you can. Once you are finished blow the candles out in reverse order. Then give thanks to your deities or the universal energy. Congratulate yourself on a job well done and relax with a cup of rose petal tea.

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With Imbolc approaching it is a time for appreciating that the dark Winter nights are retreating and the Spring days of rebirth are not far round the corner. Imbolc is the time of year recognized as the the time when the first lambs are born (Imbolc and it’s alternative oimelc are related to ewe’s milk and pregnant ewes). Imbolc is also related to purity, growth and renewal. So it’s a great time to clear out or set yourself free from a past relationship. Have you been hanging on to memories of a past love? Tokens, photograph that do not serve you or just bring sad memories? Imbolc is a great time to clear your energetic connections to the past and return a pure and renewed spirit.

Brighid in her many forms is strongly associated with Imbolc and she is renowned for her patronage of poets, smiths and healing. So a good way to celebrate your cleansing would be to write a poem giving thanks for the healing of the past and celebrating the renewal of your cleansed spirit. The poem doesn’t have to be perfect, to rhyme or have a wonderful rhythm, it just has to speak to your soul and come from your heart.

You can then work the poem as a prayer or a spell into a ritual cleansing which may take the form of an offering to Brighid, a cleansing bath or a burning ritual, after all Brighid is the Goddess of the hearth as well as cleansing so a bit of fire is very appropriate.

And if you get the chance check out the the Marsden Imbolc Festival.
Marsden Imbolc Festival

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The Winter Solstice is 21st December and is the shortest day of the year. The beliefs around this day are that the promise of the return of light is a great reason to celebrate during the often dismal winter months. The power is in the rebirth of the sun and that power can be harnessed through gratitude for the year that’s passed and the preparations for the year to come.

Winter Solstice is a time of new beginnings. It is also a time to cut ties to old relationships and clear out to ready space for all the wonderful things you will receive in the coming year. In terms of love that means it is a great time to sever your ties to past loves that no longer serve you and if you are in a relationship it is fabulous time to renew your commitment to your soulmate.

If you decide to renew your commitment to soulmate with friends and family as witness then ask them to form a circle around the ceremony. Within the circle will be you and your soulmate and a priest/priestess or someone connected to the universe, this allows you to be focussed on each other while another ensures that the ceremony runs smoothly. Preparations should include candles, red (love), green (evergreen for everlasting love) and white (healing and protection), ivy (feminine) and holly (masculine) and some incense such as rose or jasmine.

You can follow a ritual such as handfasting or exchange eternity rings, with crystals such as green tourmaline or rose quartz. Handfasting is a traditional method of commitment to another and symbolises the union of two spirits, as does the exchange of rings.

Words are another powerful way of showing commitment to each other, they should represent your commitment to each other and your connection to the universal energy or magick. You can either commission some vows or work together to create some that really resonate within your hearts. This time of year is always a great time for celebration so why not celebrate yourselves with the people you love.

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To add power and focus to your Love Spells you may choose to utilize nature’s own crystals but which are the best crystals for casting Love Spells?

Crystals should be cleansed and charged before use. You can cleanse them simply by washing in salt water but to really cleanse them and start to energize them you should use blessed water and pure salt, such as Himalayan Salt. Run the salt water over the crystal and then if possible dry in the sun for extra power.
You should next charge your crystal through chanting or affirmations, while holding the crystal and channeling energies through to it. This will infuse the crystal with your energy and positive universal energy. Once you’ve done this make sure you are the only one who touches and uses those crystals or they may lose power and connection with you. And don’t forget to give them a recharge at least once a month.

You can do no better than Rose Quartz for Love Spell casting, it is even known by some as the love stone.
Rose quartz is related to the Heart chakra and to healing of that chakra and attraction of love. Use as part of casting love spells generally and attracting your soulmate. It can also be used to help clear past loves and blockages around love and the Heart chakra. If you are in an existing relationship it can promote trust, harmony and unconditional love.
Place your cleansed and charged Rose Quartz by your bed, in your relationship corner or by your Love Altar.
Wear a Rose Quartz pendant for healing and to open your heart to make you more receptive to love. It can also support you in loving yourself more and if you have lost a loved one it can help your grieving process.
And of course you can use it as part of all love spells, easy or complex.
Overall there is no better crystal for Love than Rose Quartz and it does not just help with romantic love it is supportive and healing in all areas of love. Get some now!!

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Samhain (Pronounced Sa-wain) is the time of year associated with the beginning of Winter and time to harvest. It originates from Celtic Paganism and has largely been overshadowed by Hallowe’en, Guy Fawkes and Christian celebrations such as All Saints Day.

It is believed to be a magickal time and has been celebrated for hundreds of years as part of the harvesting of crops and the beginning of Winter.  It is considered to be a time when the light of Spring and Summer give way to the darkness of Autumn (Fall) and Winter.  It is during this change over that the veil between this world and the spirit world becomes thinner allowing easier communication and some easy magick.

Bonfires are common celebratory feature in these rituals.  They represent the light and the attempt by people to keep the dark at bay as long as possible. As the bonfires faded after the celebration it would not be uncommon for everyone to run home with the cry “The black sow without a tail take the hindmost!”.

Samhain is a time where the dead are remembered and it is a time of new beginnings, clearance of the fields laying the foundations for the future crops. It is the clearance element that made me think of the possibilities that Samhain presents for clearing out old relationship baggage to make space for your soulmate. So the Easy Love Spell that follows is to be performed with the aid of fire and is intended to clear the blockages that past relationships can cause in allowing you to connect with your soulmate.

Start by gathering:

• Something that reminds you of your past love (A photo or object/All photos and objects if you really want to break free)
• A piece of paper and a pencil (I prefer pencils but you can use a pen or crayon of you want!)
• Some Abre Camino oil (Known as the Road Opener) or a similar blockage clearing herb(s) or oil
• Some fern or other protective herb
• Some brown parcel paper (enough to wrap up the reminder of your past love) and string
• A black candle and something to light it!

Take all the above and placing them out on a table (which you have covered with some protective cover to keep it nice).  Cut the Brown paper to size, light the candle and prepare the string to allow you to tie up the reminder and the paper in a parcel.

1. Place the brown paper on the table in front of you
2. Put the reminder on your left
3. Put the blank paper in front of you
4. Put the oil and fern on your right
5. Place the candle on the table and light it
6. Say a prayer of protection, such as (just replace God with your deity’s identity):

The Light of God surrounds me;
The Love of God enfolds me;
The Power of God protects me;
The Presence of God watches over me;
Wherever I am, God is,
And all is well.

7. Then take your piece of paper and write on it:

The time we had is now over
I free our love and release the ties
We are no longer lovers now
We now go our separate ways

8. Read this out loud three times
9. Place the identifier, the paper and the fern into the middle of the brown paper
10. Sprinkle liberally with the Abre Camino oil (hence the table protection mentioned earlier)
11. Fold the edges of the brown paper over the objects and tie it up with string
12. Seal the knots you have tied using the candle wax
13. This parcel is now ready to place on your bonfire
14. You can either bury the parcel in the unlit bonfire or place it on a burning one; do so giving thanks that you are free, you could recite some lines such as those below

I am now free to love
I call on my soulmate
I hear my soulmate’s call
I walk the path of love

Enjoy your Samhain and your new found freedom

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