Becoming More Attractive
One facet of the puzzle that is “Finding Love” is how attractive you are.
Being attractive is not easy to define, as you may have already gleaned from the quote Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how can you make yourself more attractive? This blog will give you three things to focus on. Your external appearance is the first aspect, your internal glow and your connection to the divine or universal energy.
While it is not always accurate to Judge a book by its cover you can tell the state of someone’s mind by the way they dress and how much care they take of their bodies and appearance. What can you do to create an attractive appearance?
- Make your clothes congruent with your personality, for instance find out what your natural colours are?
- If you wear make up, is it a mask or does it just enhance your looks? Whatever mask you may wear drop it, or them, as often as you can.
- And always be confident in everything you do, stand tall, use appropriate eye contact, project your voice.
- If you can stand naked in front of a mirror and look at yourself without being critical you are on your way to achieving this.
Your inner glow enhances your outward appearance. Your inner glow comes from your self-awareness and spirit.
- The more you are at peace with yourself the brighter your glow.
- The more you are grateful the more you will glow.
- The more you practice unconditional love, the brighter you glow.
- If people spontaneously come up to you and begin conversations and people you know share themselves and come to you for help then you are on your way to achieving this
To feed your inner glow you need to connect to the universal power that you believe in.
- Pray, meditate or cast spells regularly to connect with the Magick.
- See the Magick in everyday situations and look for the lesson in all situations.
- Join with others of a similar mind and share the Magick.
- If you do not need guided mediations, can connect with the divine when you choose and see the beauty and the lesson in every experience, you are on your way to achieving this.
The Inner Glow is what attracts people if you are hiding it through your appearance or fear of looking stupid then you will not come across to others as attractive. If you do not connect to the divine then you Glow will be dim not bright. If you don not love yourself then your glow will be dim and not bright.
Practice all three and you will attract bright souls into your life and your Magick will support you in all things.
How Do You Increase The Magick In Your Life?
Think of your Magick as a muscle, the more you use use the better it gets, the stronger the energy gets that you generate to build your dreams into your reality. Spells may work the first time but quite often they don’t and so you need to keep trying different combinations of ingredients, words or elements. The most successful people have “failed” many times before achieving greatness. So if you are new to casting spells do not lose heart, keep going and keep up the good work.
The best way to keep track of what you are doing and the results you are getting is to write all your spells in a journal, those that you find work for you can be transferred into a grimoire or book of shadows. There are many things to record to ensure you can look back, assess the results of your spells and, as a result, be clear about what has and hasn’t worked for you. I recommend you record:
- where you cast the spell
- what emotions you were feeling before,during and after the spell casting
- the symbols and ingredients you used
- the phase of the moon (and other relevant planets, if you have knowledge in that arena)
- what you say and what your thoughts are (also any sounds, images, smells that come to you while you are casting)
Armed with all this information, plus any feedback or events that you associate with the success or failure of the spell, you will grow in Magickal stature if you practice regularly and stay connected with your source of Magick.
This goes even more so for love spells as if you not only practice spell casting and connection to your source of Magick BUT also practice unconditional love you will attract more love into you life at the same time.
“Love, and more love becomes available; use more and you have more. This is the law of life. You can eat the cake and have it also. Compassion, love, activity, whatsoever the dimension, the same rule applies. Whatsoever you want more of, do the same. If you want to become an infinite source of love, then go on sharing love as much as you can. Don’t be a miser; only misers lose energy. And we are all misers, that’s why we always feel dissipated.” Osho
Blessed Be
You “gotta have faith” for love spells to work
You’ll come across many quotes and comments about belief and faith and trust. They are all part of the same critical foundation to enable you to cast love spells. If you do not have a specific religion, such as Wicca, that you follow then you need to have a belief in a source of magick or power through which you can manifest your desires.
You’ve probably come across people saying things like “My prayers have been answered”, “the universe delivered” and “I was blessed to receive”. All these comments indicate a faith in something/someone otherworldly. They indicate a belief that there is help there for those who ask.
In my mind, spells and prayer are of the same family. They are both requests for help from a source that you believe will support you in your dreams and/or times of trouble. So to cast spells and for prayers to work you must have faith, an innate belief that you will receive what you are asking for.
As with anything you wish to be successful at you must practice the belief on a regular basis to be “good” at it. Pray every day to your deity or deities, choose your gods and goddesses well, or you can just have a link with the universe or universal energy. When you pray or cast your spell do it with an “attitude of gratitude”. Being grateful is a positive power and using a phrase such as “Blessed Be” will support you as well as a simple thank you. To make this gratitude even more powerful you can write down a list of everything you are grateful for each day. And when you do this, feel the gratitude in your body.
So to be sure of success or greater success in your spell casting be sure to trust that what you are doing will be successful and have faith that you will receive whatever the object of your request feels is best for your spiritual growth.

