My Easy Love Spells

One facet of the puzzle that is “Finding Love” is how attractive you are.

Being attractive is not easy to define, as you may have already gleaned from the quote Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So how can you make yourself more attractive? This blog will give you three things to focus on. Your external appearance is the first aspect, your internal glow and your connection to the divine or universal energy.

While it is not always accurate to Judge a book by its cover you can tell the state of someone’s mind by the way they dress and how much care they take of their bodies and appearance. What can you do to create an attractive appearance?

• Make your clothes congruent with your personality, for instance find out what your natural colours are?
• If you wear make up, is it a mask or does it just enhance your looks? Whatever mask you may wear drop it, or them, as often as you can.
• And always be confident in everything you do, stand tall, use appropriate eye contact, project your voice.
• If you can stand naked in front of a mirror and look at yourself without being critical you are on your way to achieving this.

Your inner glow enhances your outward appearance. Your inner glow comes from your self-awareness and spirit.

• The more you are at peace with yourself the brighter your glow.
• The more you are grateful the more you will glow.
• The more you practice unconditional love, the brighter you glow.
• If people spontaneously come up to you and begin conversations and people you know share themselves and come to you for help then you are on your way to achieving this

To feed your inner glow you need to connect to the universal power that you believe in.

• Pray, meditate or cast spells regularly to connect with the Magick.
• See the Magick in everyday situations and look for the lesson in all situations.
• Join with others of a similar mind and share the Magick.
• If you do not need guided mediations, can connect with the divine when you choose and see the beauty and the lesson in every experience, you are on your way to achieving this.

The Inner Glow is what attracts people if you are hiding it through your appearance or fear of looking stupid then you will not come across to others as attractive. If you do not connect to the divine then you Glow will be dim not bright. If you don not love yourself then your glow will be dim and not bright.

Practice all three and you will attract bright souls into your life and your Magick will support you in all things.

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Do you just give, give, give, give? Is it draining? You bet it is!

It’s time to look at what you want to receive in a relationship. The following is a spell to attract more abundance into your life and more love.

The spells themes are:

• Color = Green
• Moon Phase = Waxing
• Magick Invocation = Visualisation, Emotion and Belief

So let’s get going

During the two weeks approaching a Full Moon preferably on a Sunday (The Sun is a symbol of great power and as you know the sun contributes to a great harvest). Take three green candles, a deep rich green that makes you think of lush plants that are flourishing. Place them in a triangle one close to you and two further away. Triangles are potent magical symbols that are sometimes forgotten but they represent some powerful trinities such as Mind/Body/Spirit and Crone/Mother/Maiden. By pointing the triangle towards you you are indicating that you wish to evoke Mother Earth and that you want to draw abundance towards you.

Use some incense such as Dragon’s blood to create a great atmosphere and put you in the mood for magic. Find some music that makes you feel abundance, there’s plenty out there, you could even get some subliminal music that promotes abundance or some chanting designed to help things flow to you.

Sit facing the candles, relax with three deep breaths, focus on the area in centre of the candles and start to imagine receiving money, love, or friendships or all of them, whatever you want to attract. Use your senses and imagination to ensure you feel the emotion of the abundance you seek. And when you are connected to that feeling start to bring a feeling of gratitude into you whole body and when you feel at a peak with that throw your arms in the air and shout “Thank You!”.

This way of building the magical energy and then throwing gratitude outwards can be incorporated with any God/Goddess you wish to invoke help from and can be repeated each month to keep the invocation alive. Repeating it will also mean that it gets more powerful each time.

If like me you are into White Magick then this is a great book to attract more abundance into your life.

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Feelings are very important in succeeding with Love Spells.  The way you feel when you cast a spell is what is amplified into the magickal energy and ultimately what you will receive more of.

It is therefore very important to put yourself in the mood. And if you are continually putting yourself in the mood for love then you will be in the perfect place for creating live spells.

There are various ways to get yourself into a loving space but it is easier if you combine several. Your emotions come from your reactions to external influences that are picked up by your senses. So, pictures will stimulate your visual sense, music or relaxing sounds (waves or singing bowls or similar) for your auditory sense, incense for your sense of smell, etc.

If you don’t know what your love stimulations are then think back to times when you have felt love or experiment with different sounds, smells, etc. looking out for what puts you in mind of love.

For me, I use images of loved ones, nature and lots of red, plus I burn rose incense and listen to flowing piano music. That and other sense tingling things puts me in the mood for love magick.

Create a regular ritual using all your sensory love tools and love in your life will multiply as you become tuned into your heart.

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Sometimes the love that is desired is the love of a good friend, someone who will listen to you without prejudice, laugh with you and support you through good times and bad. That someone may not be your intended partner but a best friend. If you don’t have such a person in your life then the following spell can help attract them.

What you’ll need:

• A yellow candle, an orange candle and a brown candle.
• A piece of paper.
• A pen.
• A lighter or matches.
• A fireproof container.
• Anything else you may need to create the right atmosphere.

Set yourself up where you won’t be disturbed. Put on some music that puts you in the mood for Magick. Place the candles on the surface you have chosen: brown on the left, orange in the middle and yellow on the right.

Place the paper, lighter, pen and fireproof container in front of you.

Step 1 Light the candles, first the brown, then orange then yellow.

Step 2 Write a description or list, on the piece of paper using the pen, of the sort of person you want to meet (avoid describing them physically as that reduces who the universe can send through, e.g. Don’t ask for a friend with brown hair but you could ask for someone who loves sport, if that’s something you want to share).

Step 3 Recite the spell below whilst lighting the paper, then drop the burning paper in the fireproof container and let it burn through.

Send me a friend, a friend for me.
Bring me the joy that I need.
By lighting this list.
I send out my request.
For a best friend that’s perfect for me.

And finally you can enhance this spell by burning incense with the description/list and by staying open to meeting this fabulous friend and going places that you want to go to with your friend and imagining what fun it’ll be when there’s the two of you there.

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One thing that can limit the success of your Love Spells is your Ego.
A person who has an over-inflated opinion of themself and what they “deserve” is a more common occurrence nowadays than it used to be. The feeling that you are owed something, especially love, creates a desperation inside that translates into whatever you do and is obvious to those around you. In terms of love this will be one of the things that is blocking you from finding your soul mate. You will be putting out a desperate call for a specific person or type of person and it will be what you want and not what you need to continue your soul journey.

The first step, to overcome this state, is to acknowledge it and let go of the desperation that you feel when you think about love. You must also ensure that you let go of your currently held belief regarding what you deserve. This can be done through direct observation of yourself and how you feel and think when you are contemplating who you want to meet and fall in love with. Each time you catch yourself thinking about love, in a way that is selfish or needy, catch yourself and let go of the feeling. Replace this with a thought of gratitude for the love that you have from yourself and from others.

Love is much easier where the ego is not involved or is not the primary driver of you desire. If you are struggling to release yourself from your ego I suggest you take a look at Sonia Choquette’s book Soul Lessons and Soul Purpose there are some wonderful but simple exercises that will connect you to the magick and align you with your Soul Purpose. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is living in line with their Soul Purpose

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I was just thinking “Where was I when I found love?”. By that I don’t mean where geographically was I but “What was my outlook on life?” and “What were my desires?”

The answer to this lies in how I felt about myself and the emotions I attached to the quest for a soulmate and love.

I had reached a point in my life where I thought “OK I’m 30 and I haven’t met my soulmate. I also am a bit shy and so I’m probably not going to say much if I do! Which probably means I’ll just be getting along by myself.”. I doing so I let go of my attachment to love and the desperation that often goes with it. The other emotions which you may have hooked onto Love could be jealousy of other couples, unworthiness or fear of rejection.

What needs to happen for you to clear the space for Love is for you to let go of your attachment to love and any negative emotions you have related to love. Do this through meditation or visualisation of a pure form of love and any time the negative emotions surface, thank them for the learning they have given you in your life so far and tell them their service is no longer required. Perform the meditation once a day for at least 21 days and you will find love comes more easily and you are able to start loving in a pure way.

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a Friday!

Fridays are associated with Venus the Roman goddess; Venus being the goddess of love, lust and beauty. Venus has various equivalents in mythology, such as Aphrodite from the Greek Pantheon, Shukra from the set of Indian gods and goddesses and Freyja from Norse mythology.

Looking at Friday as the day set aside for these deities and their common responsibilities for love, it can be taken as an indication that a Friday is a great day for casting a love spells or praying for your soulmate to come into your life.

You may also want to consider planetary movements when you planning the occasion to cast your love spell.  The moon can positively influence the success and power of your magick.  With the moon you have two choices in the cycle of the moon that can support your casting, either the New Moon or a Waxing Moon (where the moon is changing from a New Moon and increasing in fullness to create a Full Moon).

There are less opportunities to cast at a New Moon, especially if you want to coincide your casting with a New Moon on a Friday.  However, it is this combination which sets the foundation for your future love situation, so if you are starting out on your soulmate journey then this is the best time for you.  The New Moon supports magic spells related to cleansing and destruction.  Which means this time is great for clearing the baggage of past relationships and creating room for your soulmate or twinsoul.  If you choose this time to cast a love spell I suggest it is a spell that clears blockages, separates you from a previous love or opens your heart to start attracting more love into your life.

The other time to cast your love spell would be during a waxing moon on a Friday.  The waxing moon offers support to a spell caster who is looking to start something new, such as a new relationship or maybe to re-birth an existing relationship into something even more extraordinary.  So if you have already taken some steps on your soulmate journey then this is a good time for you to choose to cast you love magick.

Whatever your reason for casting a love spell then you want to put yourself in a position of connection and power to ensure the spell works it’s best magick for you. This means checking out the phase of the moon using a site such as calculatorcat.com’s Daily Moon Phases or StarDates’ Moon Calendar.

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There are always choices in life and quite often when you make one choice you are also choosing not to have something else. For instance when I connected with my soulmate at the end of Part 2 of my Soulmate Journey I made a choice, a choice to connect and commit myself to our life together. I also in that same instant, by default chose to close the story of my single life. The important thing about these choices, well one important thing, is to honour both the choice you have made and the choice that happens by default.

It seems to me that it is the default choice that is the hardest to honour.  You still want to go out with your friends but you want to spend a whole lot of time with your soulmate.  You still want to have your stuff where you left it or organised in a certain way.

So we started to go out but only saw each other every two or three weekends, the phone calls continued though We now wanted to see much more of each other but we had a 3 hour journey to visit each other and we had our own flats but wanted to be living together.  The best idea would have been to move to my soulmate’s flat but because I had not let go of some previous baggage so we went and bought a flat somewhere else entirely, moved in together and then I was assigned to a project which meant I was away all week so we saw each other every weekend, which was slightly better that every two or three weekends.

If I had truly embraced the integral choice of leaving my previous life behind then we would very likely have been together a lot more and saved a whole lot of money as within two years we moved to my soulmate’s flat anyway as we both recognised it was where we want to be.

Your mission should you choose to accept it is to look at a big choice you have made in the last year and lift the lid on it so that you can investigate what the underlying other choices are.  For instance, if you chose to move from a shared house to your own place then you may also have made the choice to spend more time alone without realising it.  Once you recognise this then you may decide to take steps to make more effort to see friends or arrange regular dinner parties or wild parties!  Awareness is the key here, once you become aware of the unintentional choices you make you can counteract any negative effects or embrace the alternative choice.

Since I realised about consequential choices from a single choice I have been able to use my awareness of that to better assess the choices before I make them and to better understand when I am not happy with consequences of my choices.

“I think that we are starting to get much more conscious about, you know, the importance of the spiritual path, and we are fulfilling it by paying attention to ourselves.” Paulo Coelho

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The language of love spells is as crucial as all the other elements such as ritual.  The language you use needs to be words you are comfortable with, words that inspire, words that connect you to the source of power with which you are seeking connection.

For example:

I come to you and offer my love up in return for the connection with my soulmate.  I willingly take actions that take me closer to my soulmate.  I am grateful for the love I receive. I am open to love and accept it unconditionally into my life.  My life is love and my soulmate is welcome. Thank you.

In saying “I come to you and offer my love up in return for the connection with my soulmate.” you are opening your heart to the possibility of connecting with your soulmate. You offer your love to the source of power you are connecting with to show commitment, to open your heart and most importantly to create a flow of love between you and the source.

In saying “I willingly take actions that take me closer to my soulmate.” you again are showing commitment but you are also sending messages to your subconscious that you will take actions that put you in places where you will learn lessons that will take you closer to finding your soulmate. When the time is right these actions will lead you to your soulmate.

In saying “I am grateful for the love I receive.” you are showing that you acknowledge love, that you are already receptive to love and that you live in a space of gratitude which will lead you to a peaceful loving place in your life.

In saying “I am open to love and accept it unconditionally into my life.” again you are showing a willingness to receive and by stating it unconditionally you are allow the source to deliver your soulmate in the most appropriate form for you to accept and you will not have to wait until a suitable soulmate with dark hair comes to town

To end your spell you should welcome your soulmate and thank the source of power.

By doing this with passion every day in your sacred space you will create the required focus on love, connection with your source of power and attitude of gratitude that will make this love spell work for you.

Best wishes in your search and if you have any spells you would like to share please leave a comment.

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